Or are you bragging your head off?
There's nothing inherently wrong with being proud of your kid — or sharing your pride, says Wendy Grolnick, psychology professor at Clark University in Worcester, Mass.
"Nature has prepared us (for parenthood) with this wonderful tendency to see our children as fantastic in every way, and that's a good thing because it takes a lot to parent a child," she says.
"I always say, if you don't think your baby is the smartest, the best baby who ever lived, that's not good."
Problems arise when the good news about a child's accomplishment doesn't come from a good place, when it's too plentiful, or when you share the news with the wrong people, parents and experts say.
Joyce Slaton, a blogger for BabyCenter.com's Momformation, recently caused a stir with the column, "I Hate Hearing About Your Gifted Child." Slaton says that picking your audience is key. Your husband or partner, your parents and your close friends are all excellent candidates.
Parents whose children have not been singled out for the same recognition generally are not.
"When you're talking to a mom whose kid is in the same grade, you have to realize that (there's an implied comparison), so that's automatically ... socially awkward," Slaton says.
"We are (all) thrilled with our children — every mom feels that way, which is why you sort of have to put a lid on it so you don't make another mom feeling like you're saying, 'My child is better than yours.' You just don't want to say that to another mom. It's painful and hurtful."
Analyze your motives
Grolnick, author of "Pressured Parents, Stressed-Out Kids: Dealing With Competition While Raising a Successful Child" (Prometheus), says that it may be useful to check your intentions before you launch into the news.
"Are you reacting to another person's bragging? Are you annoyed?" Grolnick asked. "That's probably not (a good time) to get it out because you will feel bad and you'll make the other person feel bad."
If, on the other hand, you're talking to a friend or relative with whom you share your child's setbacks as well as her successes, or a relative who sees the child's victories as to some extent his or her own, feel free to coo a little.
"I just went to California to watch my sister's daughter in a play, and she was fabulous," Grolnick says. "People were saying things to me, and I owned it all! I said, 'Yes! It was all my doing.'"
The quality of the honor your kid is receiving should also enter into your calculations, according to sociologist Hilary Levey Friedman, author of the upcoming book "Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture."
"One of the things that's occurred is what I call 'the carving up of honor.' We have all these awards that are given to kids these days so we (can) say, 'My child won! My child's the champion!' But in reality what they won is some very small broken-down category like, they won for roller skating for 4-year-olds who have only been roller skating for three weeks."